Thursday, 24 July 2014

The Oddity of Nudity In African Women And The Justification of Injustice Against Men

What I find hard to understand is the imbalance in justice this so called modern era offers. It is prevalently addictive for the men folks to come to the defense of women but you don't find women rushing to the defense
of men.
If you say something wrong about women, you will find a million and one man defending her, this gives some women the untouchable feeling.
The other day, last week to be precise, I was at the bus stop waiting for a bus when I saw a woman beating up a man, she tore his shirt and no one said anything but the moment the man got tired of being slapped, punched and dragged and decided to defend himself, which he has every right to because if he died the same crowd would call him a fool for allowing a woman beat him to death.
As soon as this man started fighting back this same crowd of cheering men and women descended on the man without any sense of justice, tell me why won't a woman be the first to introduce violence, be the first to raise her hands on a man.
Fashion is just one of the many things they come first in, if you really want to influence a society positively or negative, start with the woman. Before men started sagging women had been sagging with different names, some call it "down bellow" others call it "down ass", the shirts have names like "cropped top", "bikini's", "jumper", "mini skirt", "see through", "nets", "show me your breast", "see back" "spaghetti" "bum shorts" "A-mama skirt", "net leggings" "tube tops" and even "sagging" these and many more are the naked campaign women have been unleashing on men for a long time,.
Women are supposed to be maiden's not ladies, its this foreign mentality of ladyship that is destroying the morals in our women. The men in this picture are copying what society has failed to correct for a long time in women.
My view is that there are issues that objectivity would be seen as subjective and bias. I will explain. In Africa (and even the Bible/Koran) a woman is not supposed to be treated with the same guidelines or rules as the man, that is how it has always been, where there is no hierarchy there is anarchy, the issue of what is good for the goose is good for the gander is putting both sexes side by side which has always been a foreign and destructive philosophy to our culture. If society must return to the days of sanity, then we must return to the days where hierarchy rules. when a man can tell his wife not to dress in an obscene way and she listens to him. To the time when a woman knows she doesn't need to corrupt the society in order to have partners. God emphasised the hierarchy between a man and a woman and the fashion madness we see today is because our women have jilted our own local fashion which seeks to conceal and embraced the Western culture which seeks to reveal. Rape cases have gone up, but I ask this question, "who raped who first" (pardon the bad English). Is it the man whose thoughts where influenced or the woman who seeks to be more "Beyonce" than Beyonce herself by dressing almost nude, exposing her breasts, cleavages, backside for what reason again? It never was like this, rape is a foreign word in Africa, there is no original word for it, solve the woman's dress problem and you have solved the society's dress problem. 
I love women but not with the foreign and fake way of life that they have embraced without reservation. Everything on them and their attitude is so fake that I don't understand how they make it everyday living a life of lies that they tell themselves. They also copy the negatives and never the positives. Our children have gone bad today because the kind of mothers we have now and for 2 decades our African women have decided to go bad. If you must change society it must start with the woman, thats why its said if you educate a woman you have educated a nation. women have great influence but most times make the wrong decisions by choice.
 Twenty years ago this same view that I hold used to be the majority view in our land and there was peace, no rape because there was no nude dressing on the part of the women. Do you know that no African language has the word "rape", not even the dynamic Yoruba language that has adopted "buketi" for bucket has any word for rape, because it never existed prior to our cultural intrusion by the West. The fear of the gods was not even the deterring factor, our morals was kept pure because there was no deliberate temptation like what we see today, many speak their mind to me in private out of fear of being attacked verbally for holding these views, just like now.
I am not afraid of holding a different view and I will always respect every man's right to hold their views but one thing is certain, I would rather trust with my life with a man who knows and appreciate his fathers so called local way of life (integrity) than one who appreciates and defends a brutal stranger just because they were made to feel inferior by this stranger. We have the best morals and culture if we only value them above what comes from ashore.